9 Reasons Why Some Dogs Are Cuddle Monsters—and Others Need Their Space

Not every dog is a cuddler.
Some will spoon you like they pay rent. Others act like you're made of lava the second you reach in for a snuggle.

So… what gives?

Turns out, your dog’s cuddle preferences are shaped by more than just mood. Let’s break down why some dogs crave close contact while others need a little more breathing room—and what you can do to bridge the gap (without becoming that clingy human).

1. Some Breeds Just Aren’t Into It 🤷‍♀️

Like people, dogs have personalities—and yes, some of that is written in their DNA. Breeds like Golden Retrievers and Cavaliers were practically designed to be furry little lovebugs. They were bred to be companion animals, and they wear that job title proudly.

But others? Not so much. Independent breeds like Shiba Inus, Afghan Hounds, or even Huskies may care about you deeply—but on their terms. That doesn’t make them cold. It makes them particular. And honestly? You should respect that.